Tom went down to theatre last night and all is well.
We were all in a state as it was explained that with his complications he might not make it through the op.
He asked the kids to look after me if he didn't make it and we were pacing all evening waiting for the call.
Finally got the call at 10p.m. to say that all was well and have spoken to him this morning.
I asked him not to do this again and he has agreed that he will try his best. LOL
Thankyou so much all of you for your support.