Thankyou for all of your kind comments.
Tom is still battling away in hospital, things are not going our way at the moment and all of his other complications are not making things easier.
Myself and Penny and Matt are all going up each day and the stress is not nice but I'm sure we will get there in the end.
It's not nice seeing someone in pain and not being able to do anything to help but the staff are wonderful.
The operation was fine but its the after bits that we are now dealing with.
Will update when things improve.